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I have a pulmonologist who has a stellar reputation in my area, but bedside manner is much to be desired. I went to him recently after a two day hospital stay with pneumonia. In the “15”minutes he saw me. Standing as if hurry up. He had not looked at any of the results from the hospital. (Which I made sure were sent to him) he ducked out briefly to have a look. Didn’t have much to say. When I asked if the pneumonia was gone. He said “probably”. Without even checking my lungs. Ushered me out to the front desk to schedule a few procedures (lung function and xray.) I know people will suggest find another doctor. Well good luck with that. Impossible. In fairness I know these doctors are overwhelmed and it seems the shortage of doctors puts a heavy load on them. And I’m sure he’s a very qualified doctor. But everyone dealing with this needs to feel heard and relevant. Fortunately I have another pulmonologist in Florida. (Snow bird) who is the exact opposite. Takes time, reviews results That’s my rant!! Sorry ☹️
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5644,
Hello! I feel your frustrations. We are here to support you, to be a sounding board. I have been in your shoes. I assume that he did not hear you have difficulty breathing but he should have listened to your lungs with a stethoscope. We do have to make a decision on how we deal with our healthcare provider-some have brilliance, expertise with little bedside manner; others are charming but may lack the expertise needed. It can take months to schedule an appointment with a new pulmonologist in some areas. Hence, we decide how we will cope with the existing healthcare provider until we schedule an appointment with someone who will be better suited for our long term health needs. Good luck getting the tests done- let us know how your follow up appointment goes.
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Hi 5644,
I have had this happen to me, and I felt the same way. When you call to schedule your next appointment, I suggest asking the scheduler to make a note in your chart. Then briefly explain what happened during your previous appointment and how it made you feel. It may help to write a short summary beforehand so it's easier to communicate the key points and for the scheduler to document them accurately. Sometimes healthcare providers need a reminder of the distress and frustration patients can experience, especially in situations like yours.
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